Relationships are hard

Breakfast/Relationships are hard

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Hi Melody, my name is Tanya (not her real name), I saw your post on abuse, I mean you did a sort of poem or so on abuse. I have not been able to get over these feelings since I read your post, I feel like you can relate, so please I need your advise.

"Several months ago, I opened up to my boyfriend about my boss molesting me, and all he did was pat me on my back and say, "these things happen, but you should have told me earlier or better still quit your job at once". Four days later he stopped picking my calls...I have not been able to reach him. I cannot visit his home because he had warned me severally not to, because like he said, his housemates are bad fellas".

I'm lost, we have been in a 2yr relationship, and I really felt I could tell him anything. I love him so much but for the past two months I have not been able to reach him...has he abandoned me, should I have kept mute about what transpired between me and my boss, please what can I do?

Inasmuch as I wanted to give her my honest reply, I do not make myself out to be a relationship expert. There are so much to talk about here, but I want to throw it out here, I believe so much in humanity and I'm sure this story resonates with you reading this. So please do not ignore the cry and pain that TANYA is going through and lend your 2 cents please. It will most definitely go a long way.

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